Labels: In Memory
|When someone hurts you, you need to be strong and rebuild your life. So release your emotions, surround yourself with positive people and learn to love who you are. It’s never easy but once you get through it you will be a tougher, wiser and more confident person than you once were. ~ Written by Dave Hedges|
I don't consider myself hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I carry a little more weight than I should, I have scars, I have a history, some people love me, some people like me, some can't stand me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and go without make up. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can take me or leave me. I won't change for nobody. When I love you, I do it with all my heart. I make no apologies for the way I am. I am a woman ~ Strong and Proud.
Some people are fat and some people are thin. Some people are tall and some people are short. Some people wear designer clothes and some wear what they can afford. So what? None of that stuff really matters! Beauty, like people comes in all shapes and sizes. It is defined by how a person is on the inside, not by what they wear, how they look on the outside. Every person has their own inner beauty. You just need to look beyond how they appear and see them for who they truly are. ~ by Dave Hedges
Although you can't be with me ~ Written by Dave Hedges
Although you can't be with me, I know we're not apart,
For I will always carry you, deep within my heart.
Although you can't be with me, my love will never die,
your love is always guiding me, from way up in the sky.
Although you can't be with me, I remember you with a smile,
cause we will be together again, not now, but in a while
A message to my Children. If you should ever need me, all you need to do is call me. It won't matter I'm sleeping, If we've had a falling out or if I'm going through my own issues, because there's nothing more important to me than my children. No matter what the circumstances, I will always be there for you to help, support and comfort you during your time of need. So please remember that I will always be there and I will always love you.
~ by Dave Hedges
The happiest of people don't have everything they ever wanted in this life, they just make the most of everything that this life has given them. The happiest of people have known hurt, they have felt pain, they have cried so many tears, they never gave up, despite the knocks and they are always trying to make things that little bit better. The happiest of people truly understand that the sad times never last and that the good times will always last longer and will always be the ones worth remembering.
~ by Dave Hedges
To my beautiful child. No matter what age you may be, I will hold you tight, support you, guide you, teach you, hug you, protect you and love you with all my heart and soul. Since the day you were born and until I draw my last breath, I will be there for you, no matter what. I love you.
~ by Dave Hedges
A lot of people think they know the real me, who I really am and what I’m about, but they don’t. Some people pass judgement on my life, the choices I've made and they have no idea about what I’ve been through and why I choose to be the way I am. So please, don't judge me when you don't know my story! ~ by Dave Hedges
We all want to feel we're loved, wanted and needed by others, and that’s a good thing. But we should make sure we don't change the fabric of who we are so that others will love, want or need us. When people love, want and need us for just who we are, it's one of the best feelings in the world. ~ by Dave Hedges
If you really want to be happy then you need to stop wishing your life away and accept where you are in life right now. Enjoy what you have and forget what you don't have or what, for now, is out of reach. Don't worry about what others have, you can't control that. It's hard, but once you focus on what you are actually blessed with, you will truly start to be happy. ~ by Dave Hedges
Life is an echo, I thought you should know,
You will always reap, those things you sow,
What you dish out, you know you will get,
If you give out bad, you will surely regret.
You can call it karma, you can call it fate,
But if you give out good, you will receive great.
So try not to judge, even those who judge you.
Give out love and let your love shine through.
~ Written by Dave Hedges
Before you make assumptions about someone, make sure you learn the facts. Before you judge someone, understand why they are the way they are. Before you hurt someone else, think how you would feel if you were in their shoes. Before you speak your words, think how they are going to affect others.
~ by Dave Hedges
Successful parents are not the ones who have had it easy. They are not the ones who had help around every corner. They are the ones who have fought, struggled and sacrificed so much of their lives. They are the ones who never gave in during the tough times because they knew it would be worth it. ~ by Dave Hedges
I was raised to show respect. I wasn't dragged up, I was taught to knock before I open a door. Say hello when I enter a room. Say please, Say thank you and show respect to my elders. I let another person have my seat if they need it, say polite things and help others when they need me to, not stand on the side lines and watch while someone struggles. I will hold the door for others walking behind me and say "excuse me" should I need to pass. I love people for who they are, not what I can get from them and most importantly, I was raised to treat people exactly how I would like to be treated by others. It's called respect.
Isn't it wonderful how sometimes the right people will come into your life, at just the right time, just when you really need them. Wonderful people who will love you, support you, help you and pray for you, regardless of the circumstances and with no expectation of anything in return. ~ by Dave Hedges
Overcoming adversity will allow you to grow, allow you to learn valuable lessons and transform you into a stronger and wiser person. When you face life's obstacles head on, you will develop an inner strength that will help you overcome adversity, develop your self-confidence and more importantly, it will give you the strength to move forward with your life.
So, ALWAYS face those challenges life throws your way!
by Dave Hedges